“Care about people’s approval and you will be their prisoner. Do your work, then step back, the only path to serenity.”
Am I dressed right?
What about my hair?
What if they shun you for being different?
Have you ever changed to please someone else?
If you have, you are not alone.
It Begins In Childhood
What mask do you find yourself wearing in different situations?
Or maybe it feels like you have a wall full of masks that you pick from before leaving the house?
Do you tolerate bad behavior from a boss for fear of losing your job?
Do you pretend to enjoy something to be accepted by your friends?
When we detach from our core there is a constant feeling of dissonance.
You Are Not Broken
A number of my clients feel this way and that they need ”fixing”. What do you believe needs ‘fixing’ in you? My philosophy in my practice is that we are not broken. We can strive to be our authentic, beautiful selves and to accept ourselves just as we are! Free of the labels of unworthiness or ‘less than’ that we place on ourselves and others.
This quote sometimes attributed to Oscar Wilde is so simple, yet so hard.
Imagine how it
would feel if you learned to love yourself – the whole package.
Imagine how your world would change.
stop this incessant worrying that I can’t be loved as I am.”
— Anais Nin
The movement from masked fakeness to open authenticity can be daunting work. One of the keys to unlocking these false beliefs from childhood is by doing inner child work.
I would be honored to join you on this journey to self-healing and self-realization by utilizing hypnosis or coaching. The results can be freeing and energizing!
Schedule your Free 30-Minute Discovery Session Today: meetme.so/judithauslander